Asynchronous Academy

Managing Sexual Relationships

Suggested Duration: 2 Hours

"The most functional way to regulate difficult emotions in love relationships is to share them."

Dr. Sue Johnson, Canadian Psychologist & Author

Sexuality Myths and Facts

There is a lot of misinformation surrounding sexual health. Getting the facts is the first step toward making safe and informed decisions.

Factors Impacting Sexual Decision-Making

Your decisions about sex are influenced by your values, peers, media, and your own physical readiness. Understanding these factors helps you stay in control of your choices.

Understanding Consent

Consent is a mandatory part of every sexual interaction. These videos break down why it is essential and how to communicate it clearly.

  • Watch: Tea and Consent – A simple and famous analogy for understanding how consent works.
  • Watch: Why is Consent Important? – Perspectives from your peers on the necessity of clear communication.

Healthy Relationships & Communication

Whether you are in a relationship or not, knowing the signs of a healthy partnership helps you set high standards for how you should be treated and how you treat others.

Moving On: Managing Breakups

Most relationships eventually end, and learning to manage that emotional transition is a key life skill.

  • Watch: Getting Over a Breakup – Strategies for managing your emotions and picking up the pieces during a difficult time.

Relationship Misconceptions Written Assignment

Task: In an exclusive, healthy relationship, open communication is essential to navigate expectations. For this assignment, write a short analysis (approximately 250–300 words) in a Markdown (.md) file addressing the following:

  1. Identify a Misconception: Choose one common myth or misconception regarding sexual health or relationships (from your research or the Sexuality Myths and Facts link).
  2. Examine the Source: Where does this misconception typically come from (e.g., social media, peer influence, television, or movies)? How does it spread?
  3. Explain the Impact: Describe how this specific misconception can create unrealistic expectations, pressure, or challenges within an exclusive relationship.
  4. Manage it in a Healthy Way: Outline at least two practical communication or boundary-setting strategies that partners can use to discuss this misconception, establish mutual consent, and protect their emotional and physical well-being.
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Relationship Tip: When discussing relationship misconceptions or boundaries with a partner, try using "I-statements" (like "I feel anxious when..." rather than "You always...") to avoid making them feel defensive. Focusing on your own emotional experience fosters open, cooperative communication.

Deliverable:

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Relationship Misconceptions Analysis

Submit your completed written analysis as a Markdown (.md) file using the course app submission portal.

Assessment

Pre-Submission

Before you submit, please complete the Pre-Submission Self-Assessment.

What to Turn In

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    Relationship Analysis (.md file)

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Learning Goals

We are learning to:

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    Understand the factors that influence sexual decision-making and identify common myths regarding sexual health

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    Demonstrate an understanding of consent and healthy communication within various types of relationships

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    Develop strategies for managing the emotional challenges associated with relationship changes and breakups

Success Criteria

I can:

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    Describe the internal and external factors that influence my sexual decision-making and sexuality

    Expectations Covered: C2
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    Demonstrate the communication skills needed to support healthy sexuality and establish clear consent

    Expectations Covered: C2
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    Identify and debunk common misconceptions about sexual health and relationships

    Expectations Covered: C3
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    Explain how being in an exclusive relationship affects my personal responsibilities and emotional well-being

    Expectations Covered: C3

Rubric

Category Level 4 Level 3 Level 2 Level 1
Identifying & Analyzing Misconceptions (Knowledge / Understanding)
How clearly does the student identify a relationship misconception and explain its external sources?
 Consistently and clearly identifies a relevant misconception and explains its external sources with clear detail Identifies a relevant misconception and explains its external sources with clear detail Partially identifies a misconception or explains its sources Identifies a misconception or sources with limited clarity
Evaluating Relationship Impact (Thinking / Inquiry)
How effectively does the student evaluate the emotional and relational impact of the misconception on an exclusive relationship?
 Demonstrates thorough, critical, and insightful analysis of how misconceptions create pressure or unrealistic expectations Demonstrates clear analysis of how misconceptions create pressure or unrealistic expectations Demonstrates basic analysis of relationship impacts with some gaps Demonstrates limited or vague analysis of relationship impacts
Setting Healthy Boundaries & Coping Strategies (Application)
How practically and realistically does the student formulate communication or boundary-setting strategies to manage relationships?
 Develops highly realistic, practical, and effective strategies for partner communication and boundary-setting Develops clear, practical strategies for partner communication and boundary-setting Develops basic strategies with some effectiveness Develops limited or unrealistic strategies
Writing Communication (Communication)
How clearly, organized, and professionally is the written analysis formatted?
 Communicates ideas in the analysis with a high degree of clarity, organization, and respectful tone Communicates ideas in the analysis clearly and with appropriate organization Communicates ideas in the analysis with some clarity and organization Communicates ideas in the analysis with limited clarity or organization
Identifying & Analyzing Misconceptions (Knowledge / Understanding)
Criteria: How clearly does the student identify a relationship misconception and explain its external sources?
Level 4

Consistently and clearly identifies a relevant misconception and explains its external sources with clear detail

Level 3

Identifies a relevant misconception and explains its external sources with clear detail

Level 2

Partially identifies a misconception or explains its sources

Level 1

Identifies a misconception or sources with limited clarity

Evaluating Relationship Impact (Thinking / Inquiry)
Criteria: How effectively does the student evaluate the emotional and relational impact of the misconception on an exclusive relationship?
Level 4

Demonstrates thorough, critical, and insightful analysis of how misconceptions create pressure or unrealistic expectations

Level 3

Demonstrates clear analysis of how misconceptions create pressure or unrealistic expectations

Level 2

Demonstrates basic analysis of relationship impacts with some gaps

Level 1

Demonstrates limited or vague analysis of relationship impacts

Setting Healthy Boundaries & Coping Strategies (Application)
Criteria: How practically and realistically does the student formulate communication or boundary-setting strategies to manage relationships?
Level 4

Develops highly realistic, practical, and effective strategies for partner communication and boundary-setting

Level 3

Develops clear, practical strategies for partner communication and boundary-setting

Level 2

Develops basic strategies with some effectiveness

Level 1

Develops limited or unrealistic strategies

Writing Communication (Communication)
Criteria: How clearly, organized, and professionally is the written analysis formatted?
Level 4

Communicates ideas in the analysis with a high degree of clarity, organization, and respectful tone

Level 3

Communicates ideas in the analysis clearly and with appropriate organization

Level 2

Communicates ideas in the analysis with some clarity and organization

Level 1

Communicates ideas in the analysis with limited clarity or organization